on becoming a bad texter on purpose
Amaan · July 25, 2026 · 3 min read
It's true im purposely trying to become a bad texter. Why you may ask? well, this blog is supposed to be a thought dump where you and i both figure it out together.
being available has actually ruined my life. Let me rephrase that, being available has ruined my life because of the people who don't value me being there for them. don't value my time, inconsiderate even some of them, only text me when they need a favor. Don't ask me how I'm doing, ask me in a way where it's almost condescending or just sound super forced.
if you dont wanna know how i'm actually doing, dont bother you know what i mean.
i dont want to hear that "but how are you not the same?" arguments. I'm tired, boss. If things don't go your way, you're upset. things don't go my way and you need me there and I'm there. how is that fair. I immediately have faces in my head where this is true, and surprisingly remains to be true. I'm a confrontational personal and I like it. not because fighting cool fighting funny haha he's so awesome says things to peoples faces, but if you genuinely care about a relationship with someone you won't be upset at them for pointing some things they don't like (not necessarily flaws). there are definitely exceptions to this but you get the idea. they want to keep the same bond or better yet make it stronger, they will work on it and expect you to work on things they don't apprecitate that you did or do.
Apparently this is a hot take? it's definitely not for me. and if it is for you, im osrry boss but we won't get along very well, and i know it. I'd like to see this be proven wrong though.
so this is what i meant by becoming a bad texter. not being available of people that don't value my time. and if they know for a fact they are doing this they for sure won't call. I don't they'd even have my number. So if you're one the people that i take 2-4 business days to respond to, Congratulations! now you know why. if it takes me longer than that, I either hate you from the bottom of my heart or responded to you in my head(seems to be happening a lot these days).
how are you going to be upset when I respond to you with seemingly 0 interest? My guy you didn't want to talk to me, not the other way around. Oh look how the tables have turned. Reading this back makes me realize this is so stupid and people should set clear boundaries from the start. I am people. I had to get it off my chest and now that it's done. See you later, losers!